Self-advocate Fahmina ‘proud’ after speaking at learning disability event
A self-advocate who was invited to speak at a learning disability event last night (Thursday) said she was “proud” of what she’d done after speaking in front of an audience for the first time.
Fahmina Hoque spoke at Learning Disability Network London’s Spotlight On event, held in Learning Disability Week and all about what success can look like for people with learning disabilities.
The 25-year-old’s self-advocacy story started last year, after moving to Hampshire to be with her now husband Mehdi and asking social services for an advocate to support her to be heard.
Fahmina was told she not entitled to one, but was referred to voice and rights charity VoiceAbility – which provides independent advocacy services across the county.
After a conversation with a VoiceAbility team leader, Fahmina learnt she could advocate for herself and became part of Speak Out Hampshire – a group for people with learning disabilities.
Fahmina is now also part of the Hampshire Learning Disability Partnership, which seeks to improve things for people with learning disabilities in the county.
Self-advocacy is speaking up for yourself and other people with learning disabilities.
That’s what Fahmina told event host and journalist Saba Salman, the author of the book Made Possible: Stories of Success By People with Learning Disabilities – in Their Own Words.
“It’s to get our voices heard around issues like GP services and social care, and getting people with influence to listen to us.”
Asked what has helped her to be where she is today, Fahmina said: “Where I am today I would say is because of my primary school, St Marks [in Brighton]. If it wasn’t for them, I would not be the Fahmina that I am today.
“They recognised my barriers and challenges. They helped me by reaching out to a charity called Amaze and, as a team, they supported me to move to a special needs school. From there, step by step, I’ve improved my life.”
The event concluded with Saba asking Fahmina that if someone made a film of her life, who would play her.
Fahmina said:
This might sound a little bit cheesy, but I think I’d play the character as myself, me.
The audience applauded as Saba replied: “Spoken like a true self-advocate.”
Speaking afterwards, Fahmina said: “I did my best to be confident and I’m proud of myself.
“I found it interesting to hear from other people with learning disabilities. I did not know the other people speaking, but it made me feel not alone.”